BangkokBois’ Gay Thailand Blog

Sawatdee and welcome to the new and improved Bangkokbois Gay Thailand Blog! Okay, so it’s not necessarily improved, just hosted on a new site and tinkered with a bit. And it’s not just about Thailand, though that still is the main focus. And it’s not all gay either, unless you’re not and then you’ll think it’s pretty damn gay I’m sure. All of the penis might tip you off. Which means if you are not of the required legal age to be looking at penis other than your own, you should leave. And go tell your parental units they suck at their job. For everyone else, enter at your own risk.

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Real Gay Men Don't Flounce, They Swagger

Real Gay Men Don’t Flounce, They Swagger

Spring will soon be here, winter is almost over, next week that stupid groundhog will or will not see its shadow when what it really should be shown is a stew pot, and with the change of seasons the thoughts of young men turn to penis. At least young gay men. Although I suspect that still holds true for young straight men too because the one thing we all share in common is a heavy preoccupation with all things dick. And you can scratch the ‘young’ too, seniors are just as enamored with the thought of dick. Come to think about it, while the commencement of spring is a handy excuse, it really doesn’t matter what the season is or what the weather is like either. So you can ignore the seasonal reference too. ‘Cuz all guys think about dick 24/7, 365 days of the year.

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Off With His . . .

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Photo Of The Week #11

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To Wai Or Not To Wai

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Monday Meat #49

Monday Meat #49

Selfies Sunday #48

Selfies Sunday #48

End Of The Week #175

End Of The Week #175

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Latest In Gay Thailand:

Facing The Realities Of Farang Face

Facing The Realities Of Farang Face

Face, an important but difficult to define cultural concept, holds great sway in many Asian countries. In Thailand, it is as important as the air you breathe. It’s about your reputation, your image, your honor, and the esteem you are held in by others. But more. It is at work 24/7 whether you realize it or not, and greatly impacts your relationship with a bar boy be that a 15 minute one or one that has been going on for several years. Farang who care about what their boy du jour thinks of them, and those who like to treat their offs with respect, consider the guy’s face in how they conduct themselves. Those that don’t lose face without ever realizing it.

The importance of face to a bar boy, and the cultural oddities that stem from that concept, are a popular subject on the gay Thailand message boards with numerous pundits weighing in on what is important to the working guys and how best to not dis them. But face is important to Thailand’s visitors too. It’s just different than that for locals. A successful relationship is incumbent on the actions of both parties involved, and the face a farang gains or loses greatly impacts the face of the Thai he is with. Yet the idea of farang face seldom gets aired. That may have a lot to do with how little respect many farang are deserving of in the first place; countless punters throw theirs away within the first few minutes of hooking up with a new guy. And then wonder why they get burned, land a dud, or get taken for a ride so often. Face, like respect, is something you earn. Like your reputation, it is something you should protect. And not being Thai, from the bar boys’ viewpoint, you are already starting off at a disadvantage.

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Gratuitous Gratuities In Gogo Bars

I Fell In Love With A Bar Boy: They Shoe Horses Don't They?

I Fell In Love With A Bar Boy: They Shoe Horses Don’t They?

Sexless In The City: An Outlook For Bangkok Gay Sex Tourists in 2015

Sexless In The City: An Outlook For Bangkok Gay Sex Tourists in 2015

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Latest In Thailand Tips and Tales:

TIT: Follow The Body Chalked Roads

TIT: Follow The Body Chalked Roads

The only thing more dangerous than driving the streets of Bangkok is walking the streets of Bangkok. Because in all things size matters. And when you are a pedestrian, your stature looms small and you lose. Not that Bangkok drivers have anything against pedestrians mind you. The same rule of the road holds true between vehicles. The larger truck or car always has the right of way. And always wins. It’s a matter of physics. And not just because 99% of all drivers in Bangkok are guilty of DWA (Driving While Asian). Throw in the Buddhist belief that you’ll always get what’s coming to you – I may have paraphrased that tenet – and taking to the streets of the Big Mango on foot often means you’ll get to start on your next life sooner than you planned.

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Let A Smile Be Your Umbrella

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Backpacker Conquer Thyself at Wat Chana Songkhram

Backpacker Conquer Thyself at Wat Chana Songkhram

Pounding Mochi (aka What Are You Doing New Year's Eve?)

Pounding Mochi (aka What Are You Doing New Year’s Eve?)

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Eye Candy: Baby It's Cold Outside!

Eye Candy: Baby It’s Cold Outside!

Eye Candy: A Boy And His Penis

Eye Candy: A Boy And His Penis

Eye Candy: Anonymously Cute

Eye Candy: Anonymously Cute

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Latest In It’s A Gay World Posts:

Fleshly Plucked

Fleshly Plucked

My best off ever in Thailand (don’t tell Noom) was my first night with Nut, the little Burmese muscle dude who used to work at Tawan. He was new to the bar then, had only worked a few nights, and I was one of his first customers. Eventually he became one of the stars of the bar and built his body into a solid ball of pure muscle. But on our first night together he was more of a youthful Adonis. Athletically built, but not overly so. He was gorgeous. And while it was years before he admitted to being Burmese, his smile exemplified that which Thailand is famous for from the get go.

If I think about that night hard enough (no pun intended) I can remember the sex. His body takes no effort in recalling. Even if my memory primarily remembers it dressed in a pair of tighty whiteys that fit like a second skin. But what I really remember about that night was his innocence, his sense of humor, and his personality. We spent most of the night cracking each other up. And spent far more time talking than we did having sex. Naked, but talking nonetheless. Which was pretty amazing in its own right since he spoke but a handful of English words. Not to mention that usually when I’m in the presence of a hot naked man, I revert to using sign language.

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It’s Boxing Day!

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Pretty Boy Meets Pretty Small

Pretty Boy Meets Pretty Small

“I have public hairs bigger than his dick was!”

Helena spewing orange juice all over the table should have clued Chris in that a simple “Good Morning!” would have been a more appropriate greeting. I briefly considered suggesting that a bit of manscaping might be in order, but the look on Chris’ face told me he was not a happy camper. But evidently was a size queen. Chris had started his Thailand holiday swearing that the commercial sex scene was not part of his plan. He was too young and too not bad looking to pay for sex. And then proceeded to indulge in the procurement of a bar boy nightly while we were in Bangkok.

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I Kissed A Boy

I Kissed A Boy

Bugging Out

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I Fell In Love With A Bar Boy: Just Kidding

I Fell In Love With A Bar Boy: Just Kidding

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Popular Gay Thailand GoGo Bar Posts:

First Timers Guide To Bangkok Gay Gogo Bars

First Timers Guide To Bangkok Gay Gogo Bars

For those of us who visit Thailand, and its bars, frequently, the entire process of a night out is pretty humdrum. We know what to expect. We don’t even think about the details. It’s all second nature to us. But what about the new guys? It’s not like outside of Thailand you’ll ever have an experience even close to that of visiting one of the gay gogo bars in Bangkok. While a first time visit is undoubtedly thrilling, it also can be a bit unnerving as the newbie hasn’t a clue as to how the whole thing works

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How Much Is That Puppy In The Window: The Cost of A Night With A Gogo Boy In Thailand

How Much Is That Puppy In The Window: The Cost of A Night With A Gogo Boy In Thailand

If It Walks Like A Duck: The What’s What Of Bangkok’s Gay Bar Scene

If It Walks Like A Duck: The What’s What Of Bangkok’s Gay Bar Scene

It Is Up To You

It Is Up To You

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