BangkokBois’ Gay Thailand Blog

Sawatdee and welcome to the new and improved Bangkokbois Gay Thailand Blog! Okay, so it’s not necessarily improved, just hosted on a new site and tinkered with a bit. And it’s not just about Thailand, though that still is the main focus. And it’s not all gay either, unless you’re not and then you’ll think it’s pretty damn gay I’m sure. All of the penis might tip you off. Which means if you are not of the required legal age to be looking at penis other than your own, you should leave. And go tell your parental units they suck at their job. For everyone else, enter at your own risk.

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The Boyfriend Conundrum

The Boyfriend Conundrum

I have, over the years, relied heavily on white space to define my relationship with Noom, my bar boy friend (blah, blah, blah). You’ll note I just did it again. There is a gap between the word boy and friend, in fact the boy part of that phrase goes with the word bar, not with the word friend. It is a tiny amount of white space. Some would say it’s an unnecessary bit of white space too. What we share includes many of the hallmarks of a traditional boyfriend relationship. There’s love, respect, concern for the other’s well-being and happiness, and a commitment that binds that two of us together. But there is also distance, long periods of not being together, no pretense of exclusivity, and a financial basis that transcends the normal boyfriend paradigm. Noom is a bar boy. Who also happens to be my friend. One whom I love deeply. In what we share, that white space doesn’t matter. It has no effect on our relationship. But then neither of us is deluded enough to consider the other his boyfriend. The word without the white space. Perhaps, that Noom consider himself straight has something to do with that.
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Pictures That Move Me #23

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Try A Little Tenderness

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7 Shots: The Grand Palace

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Take It Off Thursday #11

Take It Off Thursday #11

Hump Day Is Bump Day #11

Hump Day Is Bump Day #11

Twinky Tuesday #11

Twinky Tuesday #11

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I Fell In Love With A Bar Boy: My First Time

I Fell In Love With A Bar Boy: My First Time

I’m not a fan of organized religion. It’s not the religion part that I have a problem with, but rather the organized. Inevitably organizing a religion leads to a focus on gaining and maintaining power and accumulating and growing wealth with very little attention being paid to practicing what you preach. There is nothing wrong with faith, but sometimes the faithful worry me greatly; throughout history there have been more godless acts committed in the name of god than deeds that would make him proud of what he wrought.

Worse – because even your faith is all about me – organized religion has done a smashing job of screwing up the hearts and minds of the little gay boys of the world. It’s difficult to be gay when you’ve been taught by your church that being you means you are going to hell. Which most organized religions do teach. Even though god didn’t think Thou Shall Not Be Gay was quite important enough of a commandment to start on another tablet of stone. But maybe that omission was just due to an over-zealous editor.
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A First Timer’s Visit To Gay Pattaya  -  Part 2(b ): Dongtan  Beach  And The Crack Of Don

A First Timer’s Visit To Gay Pattaya – Part 2(b ): Dongtan Beach And The Crack Of Don

A First Timer’s Visit To Gay Pattaya  -  Part 2(a): Dongtan  Beach  And The Crack Of Don

A First Timer’s Visit To Gay Pattaya – Part 2(a): Dongtan Beach And The Crack Of Don

What You Drink?

What You Drink?

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Latest In Thailand Tips and Tales:

Heebie-Freebies

Heebie-Freebies

A friend who makes a scented product recently landed an account with a broker who supplies amenities to hotels on the Vegas Strip. On the strip mind you, not the budget accommodations miles away from the action or the older downtown/Fremont Street hotels. Within three weeks he delivered annual contracts with four properties for daily stock of her product. Her profit on each unit is twenty-eight cents. Which hardly sounds like it’s worth the effort. But that’s for a total of 3,800 rooms. Per day. For a year. Or in numbers that have a real meaning, she just landed new accounts worth just under $375,000 annually. In profit.

Recently married to her partner of 15 years, I’ve asked that they adopt me. I think it’d be cool to have a pair of lesbian for mothers. Especially rich ones.
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TIT: Tommy Does Thailand

TIT: When The Urge Moos You

TIT: When The Urge Moos You

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Eye Candy: Happy Songkran ‘14!

Eye Candy: Happy Songkran ‘14!

Eye Candy: Hunting Down Hunter

Eye Candy: Hunting Down Hunter

Eye Candy: Da Boy

Eye Candy: Da Boy

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Latest In It’s A Gay World Posts:

69 Is The New 23

69 Is The New 23

You’d think Dustin Lance Black was 105 the way everyone reacted to his good fortune in being the one to officially pop Tom Daley’s cherry. It must be a bitch to have earned the dirty old man moniker at the relatively young age of 38. But then again when you’re the one who got to officially pop Tom Daley’s cherry, what others call you probably doesn’t really matter.

Nonetheless there are many who claim Dustin is too old for Tom, and many who say that it’s just a mentoring stage, that Tom will soon find someone closer to his own age to spread his legs for. Despite that May / December romances have been around longer than the Gregorian calendar whose months that brand of affair is named after. For centuries young men have turned to older men for the money, security, knowledge, and money they provide them. And older men have cast their gaze toward the youthful for their beauty. And because, as Sophie Tucker put it, “20 goes into 80 a hell of a lot more than 80 goes into 20. Read Full Article

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Recently, Recently At Orgies

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Happy St. Patrick’s Day!

Sex In The Locker Room: A Not So Straight Man’s Fantasy

Sex In The Locker Room: A Not So Straight Man’s Fantasy

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Pretty Boy Meets Pretty Small

Pretty Boy Meets Pretty Small

“I have public hairs bigger than his dick was!”

Helena spewing orange juice all over the table should have clued Chris in that a simple “Good Morning!” would have been a more appropriate greeting. I briefly considered suggesting that a bit of manscaping might be in order, but the look on Chris’ face told me he was not a happy camper. But evidently was a size queen. Chris had started his Thailand holiday swearing that the commercial sex scene was not part of his plan. He was too young and too not bad looking to pay for sex. And then proceeded to indulge in the procurement of a bar boy nightly while we were in Bangkok.

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I Kissed A Boy

Bugging Out

Bugging Out

I Fell In Love With A Bar Boy: Just Kidding

I Fell In Love With A Bar Boy: Just Kidding

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Popular Gay Thailand GoGo Bar Posts:

First Timers Guide To Bangkok Gay Gogo Bars

First Timers Guide To Bangkok Gay Gogo Bars

For those of us who visit Thailand, and its bars, frequently, the entire process of a night out is pretty humdrum. We know what to expect. We don’t even think about the details. It’s all second nature to us. But what about the new guys? It’s not like outside of Thailand you’ll ever have an experience even close to that of visiting one of the gay gogo bars in Bangkok. While a first time visit is undoubtedly thrilling, it also can be a bit unnerving as the newbie hasn’t a clue as to how the whole thing works

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How Much Is That Puppy In The Window: The Cost of A Night With A Gogo Boy In Thailand

How Much Is That Puppy In The Window: The Cost of A Night With A Gogo Boy In Thailand

If It Walks Like A Duck: The What’s What Of Bangkok’s Gay Bar Scene

If It Walks Like A Duck: The What’s What Of Bangkok’s Gay Bar Scene

It Is Up To You

It Is Up To You

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