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Sawatdee and welcome to the new and improved Bangkokbois Gay Thailand Blog! Okay, so it’s not necessarily improved, just hosted on a new site and tinkered with a bit. And it’s not just about Thailand, though that still is the main focus. And it’s not all gay either, unless you’re not and then you’ll think it’s pretty damn gay I’m sure. All of the penis might tip you off. Which means if you are not of the required legal age to be looking at penis other than your own, you should leave. And go tell your parental units they suck at their job. For everyone else, enter at your own risk.

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Pounding Mochi (aka What Are You Doing New Year's Eve?)

Pounding Mochi (aka What Are You Doing New Year’s Eve?)

Who knew when you are in a mature, adult, committed relationship and your boyfriend can’t get the time off to take a trip to Thailand for Christmas that you’re not supposed to say, “Shame that,” and take off on your own to whore your way through Bangkok for the holidays? I knew there was something fishy about that whole marriage equality thingy. And I don’t just mean all the newspaper photos of lesbians getting hitched.

So instead I’ve been told we’re going to Hawaii for New Year’s, which has advantages of its own. It’s been years since I’ve rung in the new year in Honolulu, and I’ve missed New Year’s Eve parties emptying out at about a quarter to twelve so everyone can rush home to light firecrackers off to keep the bad spirits away for the year. And it’s been too long since I’ve had to pay six times the normal price for ahu to make sashimi too. Plus in California you don’t get to just drop in on complete strangers on New Years Day ‘cuz everyone is happy to have an extra hand pounding mochi. I’ve always wanted to find a cute local dude nicknamed Mochi so I could pound him on New Years. It’s on my bucket list. And while I’m not a cute nickname kinda guy, since finding out we’re doing the islands for the holidays I’ve started calling Dave Mochi. He hasn’t figured out why yet. But thinks it’s cute.

Okay, so no boyfriend is perfect.

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I Fell In Love With A Bar Boy: The Gift

“When you come back Bangkok?”

That Noom – my bar boy friend and current love of my life – wanted to know when I’d be returning to his arms once again was sweet. That I’d just landed and we hadn’t even spent a full evening together yet, not so much. If his sense of humor was more subtle I’d have to have taken that comment as, “When are you leaving?” But the scrunched up condition of his forehead said it was something else that was going through his mind.

Usually, combined, Noom and my communication skills work well. I speak more Thai than I let on; he speaks less English than he pretends to. Effort too plays its role. If whatever I’m trying to communicate is important enough I try to remember to use a more basic vocabulary. And cut out unnecessary or confusing words. Like pronouns. And if he thinks what I’m attempting to communicate is important enough, he actually listens. Instead of just picking out a few key words and ignoring the rest. I’d just done my part, Noom was still acting on his. But then actions speak louder than words and my action had him both confused and a bit worried. So I knew I’d have to try again. After I allowed his current train of thought to play out.

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Taxi. Meter.

Taxi. Meter.

Maybe it’s just that I’m getting old, but I’m starting to think about my after-life. No one really knows for sure what happens to you after you die, but I’m kinda drawn to the idea of reincarnation. The faithful of those faiths that hang their hat on that ideal believe that if you are a good man in this life in your next one you’ll come back further along the road to enlightenment. If not you get demoted down a few rungs on the enlightenment/evolutionary scale. So you could come back as a cockroach. Or if you really broke the karma bank, like some fans of Sunee Plaza, in your next life you’ll be an even lower life form. Like Dick Cheney.

But that’s all guess work. What really happens, and how that comes about is a mystery. But I think I should hedge my bets. For all I know when you die you only have a second to call dibs on who or what you’ll be the next time around. And if you are not prepared with a quick answer, then your fate rests on the spin of the wheel. And who wants to take the chance that you’ll end up spending the next eighty years or so as a straight man? Or worse, a lesbian? So I’ve been mulling over my options. And I think I’d like to try my hand next time around as a taxi driver in Bangkok.

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Eye Candy: A Jake In The Han . . .

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Christmas is a time of joy, peace, and good will toward men. And if you are like me nothing encompasses those yuletide warm fuzzies these days like the Ukraine. At least since Putin started putin the make on the former Soviet republic. Red is, after all, one of the official colors of the season. Now you may be thinking that since Russia doesn’t celebrate Christmas until sometime in January it’s a bit early to be celebrating its new borders. And you may even be thinking that being subjugated by The Bear isn’t something to celebrate in the first place. But when your most cherished national Christmas tradition is decorating your Christmas trees with spiders, that your country will occasionally be devoured by a huge, hungry creature that preys on the small is a given. And you really shouldn’t let that bug you.

Or maybe you shouldn’t think spiders are a symbol of good luck. ‘Cuz when you’re the fly that luck has little to do with you. At least not in a positive way. Ho, ho, ho.

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“I have public hairs bigger than his dick was!”

Helena spewing orange juice all over the table should have clued Chris in that a simple “Good Morning!” would have been a more appropriate greeting. I briefly considered suggesting that a bit of manscaping might be in order, but the look on Chris’ face told me he was not a happy camper. But evidently was a size queen. Chris had started his Thailand holiday swearing that the commercial sex scene was not part of his plan. He was too young and too not bad looking to pay for sex. And then proceeded to indulge in the procurement of a bar boy nightly while we were in Bangkok.

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Popular Gay Thailand GoGo Bar Posts:

First Timers Guide To Bangkok Gay Gogo Bars

First Timers Guide To Bangkok Gay Gogo Bars

For those of us who visit Thailand, and its bars, frequently, the entire process of a night out is pretty humdrum. We know what to expect. We don’t even think about the details. It’s all second nature to us. But what about the new guys? It’s not like outside of Thailand you’ll ever have an experience even close to that of visiting one of the gay gogo bars in Bangkok. While a first time visit is undoubtedly thrilling, it also can be a bit unnerving as the newbie hasn’t a clue as to how the whole thing works

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If It Walks Like A Duck: The What’s What Of Bangkok’s Gay Bar Scene

It Is Up To You

It Is Up To You

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